Love is in the air…is it really?
Hmm…it’s valentine’s again. As every year, ever, I’ve let it passed by without celebrating or even leaving for myself a memory to cherish. Well…enough of my craps. 14th February has always been a day to make and to spend more money.As for florists, a day’s business has never been as good as on this particular day. Yeah…RM10 for a rose. So, it’s about RM2 per petal? Hehehehe. It’s not just florists who are making money…there are restaurants, hotels and last but not least, 7-eleven for a particular "product" 
Well…I never had a privilage to use that "product". I had my chances…but I choosed not to. Yeah..yeah…yeah….I’m a coward…but at least i’m not a sinner. Tak baik woo buat maksiat…hehehehe. All these and more, has got me thinking. What’s love? Is it about spending money? or having sex on special days? even though u’re not married? If u notice, these are the scene that potrays valentine’s day in our very own KL. It has been a cliché for as far as I can remember. Well…that’s what I see at least. For a person like me…who never had a gf, maybe it’s easy for me to say. I get confused all the time…about love and lust. There’s definately a fine line between those two. So…how to elucidate love and lust? Well…I hope I know the answer. I’ve seen so much relationship based on both love and lust. Well, i have to say that this is pretty much on the men’s side. We know that most women are always in it for love and for what it’s worth, hoping that men are the same. It not always the case really…there are some men I know who are really in it for the love…and I give my full respect to these gentlemen. For me..I’m lucky to have such a great mother. She always tought me on how I should treat people and women especially. All the love i have inside myself was inspired by her. It is just maybe that the time hasn’t come for me to spill it all to someone Talking bout lust, I’ve seen some lust-based relationship. To tell ya the truth, this kind of relationship is doomed to fail…and it’s always the women who become the "victim". They gave their all…and I mean all! Well…I don’t have to mention bout the consequences rite? But yeah…I would say bout 70% of women who have bf has been de’virgin’ised. It’s hard to find a bona-fide or a genuine or a real "anak dara" nowadays. And it’s even harder to find a guy in the same manner For me, I don’t believe in sex before marriage. If that gonna make me a loser…so be it In my life, I will do my best to please only one women…my future wife of course:) So…guys out there especially my frens…hear me out…and remember…what goes around comes around. Respect women as they should be respected and life will treat u well…insyaallah. Aminn! Well…to me love is just like the music from the other room…u like the tune but u don’t know the name…u hum along but u don’t know the words…u’re brewed into the melody, but when the music stops….u start to wonder if u gonna hear that music again.
